I matched this guy. He didn’t text much but he wanted to have dinner. I suppose he could be the type of prefers to talk in person so I agreed to meet. Besides, overall vibes was alright so I decided to give it a shot.
Firstly, he was late. No explanation. I decided to continue the date as I was hungry. As we spoke to each other, I noticed his hair wasn’t real. I’m fine with that too as we were just talking.
He spoke louder than normal so I tried to take it that he’s just nervous. We waited for over 20 minutes after ordering our food. He started to get upset and spoke to the waitress rudely and demanded to see the manager.
I’m not sure if he’s trying to show me that he’s a bad ass for being so considerate of my hunger or he’s just being mean because he can. By then I was starting to feel uncomfortable.
It was dinner hour so I expected a little delay and I didn’t mind using the time to chit chat but he was insistent in showing that he’s unhappy even when I told him I’m ok to wait.
He made such a huge fuss I feel so embarrassed the entire duration while we were in the restaurant. I thought we agreed to go dutch but he insisted to pay for dinner. Saying I can treat him the next time. Erm no?
After that night I rejected meeting him again. He went bat shit angry on me and started to throw insults. I blocked him. What a nightmare.
Why am I so sway?
Netizens’ comments
- You dodged a bullet
Dates from dating apps are hit or miss. To go through it, might have seemed “suay”, but such experiences may pave the way for someone good to come - Gosh what a bad character but it’s good that he showed it on the first date.. but be careful in case he sues for rejecting him.. lol
- Next time shower with pomelo leave before meeting anyone so can wash away the “sway” first