Got blood on my boyfriend
Today I hung out with my boyfriend for a few hours this afternoon. During this time, one thing led to another and fingering was involved.
This went on and off for about 30 minutes, taking breaks every now and then. I don’t want to go too far into detail, but right before i leave i notice dried blood on his fingers.
I immediately knew it was from me. I had no idea this would happen, and I’m now super embarrassed.
As soon as i got back I messaged him saying i started my period and he says he got my blood on his fingers. I apologized and he reassured me this was okay, but i feel absolutely embarrassed and I’m currently on the verge of tears.
I feel so gross & like he is going to leave me. I hate my life, should I feel embarrassed or let it go?
Netizens’ comments
- If he said don’t worry about then don’t worry about it. Men worth having won’t care. It’s not that big of a deal
- Girl you are totally fine!!
Accidents happen and a little blood is not a big deal. He obviously isn’t bothered as he told you it’s okay – and if he did make a huge fuss about it, then honestly he’s a tool and you shouldn’t be with someone who makes you ashamed of your body. His reaction was on point – it’s nothing to be upset over.
I literally accidentally bled on my fwb earlier this week bc I thought my period was over and it wasn’t. I’ve only known this guy for a month. He was super chill about it and then we moved on. Nothing worth fretting over. - This is normal and he’s amazing for being understanding Never apologize for biology. Your have no control over this. Life happens. Live it. Be proud of that fact that you have periods. Means everything is working as it should be. You go girl!!!
- Meh,it happens. Honestly if his reaction was anything less, it wouldn’t be a good sign. Can’t speak for all guys, but I reckon he would just be thinking jeez I got to finger my gf today. And the blood on the finger won’t even come across his mind.Â