Losing sleep over losing hair
I met a girl. We got on really well and are both looking for the same thing (long-term r/s). After multiple dates and signs that she likes me as more than a friend as well, here’s the thing:
I’ve been wearing a wig to our dates, and she doesn’t know. I know… I’m a catfish and an a-hole, but if you’re not bald you probably don’t know how looking like this in your early 30s completely destroys one’s self-esteem.
I want to be honest with her before we officially enter a r/s. How would you break the news to her if you were in my shoes?
Here are what netizens think:
- I’m in my 20s and already have receding hairline with the distinct “m”, along with a high forehead. I foresee becoming totally bald in my 30s and thats what I’m going to rock. Forget about how other people look at you, focus on how you look upon yourself first. If you can accept being bald and walk around with confidence, I believe you’ll feel much better with or without a partner. You’ll know when the right person comes. Trust me I know how you feel.
- What is your view after watching those full/drastic make up video of woman before & after? If you think you feel cheated then be prepared to face the reality too. If you think all women deserve the chance to be called as beautiful after their makeup means you have the possibility to get her acceptance too. After all, how you treat or regards others will have a reciprocal effect to own self.
- Dude, she doesn’t know yet this is chewing on your conscience. So obviously it’s affecting you more than it’s affecting her right now. Just tell her lah and see how she reacts. Just don’t hope that she will understand you completely, and if she doesn’t, she’s probably not the right person for you. For all you know, she probably already guessed you’re wearing a wig… Be brave about this…