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WOMAN DOESN’T WANT TO HAVE KIDS, FINDS IT HARD TO FIND MEN WHO ALSO WANT TO BE CHILD-FREE

How hard is it to find a man who doesn’t want kids? (33F dating 33M)

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My boyfriend (33M) and I (33F) have been dating for a little over two years. He definitely wants to have kids and I’m pretty sure I don’t.

We’ve had several discussions about it and he knows I’m on the fence and mostly leaning towards no. I think he thinks that I’m going to change my mind, but I don’t think that’s likely. I’ve given it a lot of thought and I keep coming back to not wanting to have them.

The cons outweigh the pros for me and I think I’d be happier childfree. I’m going to have another discussion with him about this soon and make it clear that I most likely won’t change my mind.

He’s probably going to break up with me cause it’s a dealbreaker for him, which I’m prepared for.

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I feel like most people want to have kids and I’m a little fearful I won’t find someone who doesn’t. How hard is it to find a man who doesn’t want to have (and doesn’t already have any) children? We live in a major metropolitan city so meeting new people isn’t hard.

ETA: No one has really asked but I just wanted to clarify that I thought I’d probably have kids when we started dating cause that’s what most people do, but the more seriously I thought about it, the more I realized I don’t want them.

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