When I heard the news, I couldn’t believe it.
My fiancée had made me get a vasectomy and then proceeded to dump me. How could she do something like that? I had been with her for five years and we were planning our wedding.
She had asked me to get a vasectomy a few months prior, but I had been hesitant. I didn’t want to do something so drastic without being sure about it.
However, she persisted, as she said she doesn’t want kids and just want us to enjoy life ourselves. I finally agreed, and we went to the doctor to get the procedure done.
It wasn’t easy to go through with it, but I trusted her and I thought she was worth it. Little did I know that she would break up with me a few weeks later. I was completely blindsided and devastated.
I had spent five years investing in a relationship with her, and now it was over. I couldn’t believe that she had made me get a vasectomy and then dumped me. I felt betrayed and angry at her for being so callous.
I tried to confront her about it, but she refused to answer my calls. She had obviously moved on and didn’t want to talk to me anymore. I tried to get answers from her friends, but they were just as clueless as I was.
I was left with so many questions, and all I could do was accept the situation and move on. I had to accept that she had made me do something I wasn’t sure about and then dumped me.
It has been three years since the vasectomy, and now I’m still single but she’s married with two kids.