Girlfriend comes back from holiday with a hickey.
Hey, my girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly 6 months, and so far everything’s been great,
however, my girlfriend came back from her holiday with a hickey, as in a mark on her neck that’s usually from kissing.
She told me that her and her friends met up with a group of boys and her friends (all girls) said if you don’t kiss a boy, we get to give you a hickey. So she tells me she went with the hickey from her friend.
I hate this whole situation that she’s all of a sudden come back from holiday with a hickey, to be honest, this is a dumping level offense in my book if you just look at it in black and white.
It makes me look stupid. All I have is her word to believe her which isn’t satisfying me and I’ve been thinking about it an unhealthy amount since she told me.
I did take her aside and I looked her in the face and said, “promise me that was your friend, and not another boy” or something along the lines, and she responded with first defensively “Oh what would you rather I have gone with the option to kiss another boy?” and then when I replied, “Who said you had to choose an option.” she says “I love you so much. I’d never do anything like that” blah blah BS.
Any advice is welcome and if you need more context on a specific part, ask away. Thanks.