A guy shared how his girlfriend is still in contact with her ex-girlfriend and theyhave been going out for meals and texting each other.
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Hi admin, please don’t filter this post. Would like to see what guys(or girls) think.
I got together with my girlfriend recently and she told me that she was still in contact with her ex who is of the same gender.
She said they are just pure friends. I don’t mind as she assured me that she loves me now.
However they have been texting often (albeit no flirtatious/lovey dovey messages) and have been meeting for meals regularly.
I really like her and decided to pursue her but it kinda bugs me that she came to know me only weeks after her previous breakup(our mutual friend brought us tgt) and is currently still in contact with her ex.
I don’t want to make it sound like its a big fuss because I trust her, love her and she has not much friends around her in the first place.
So am just throwing out the question here. Will you be ok if they are still in contact?
- You are in a rebound relationship. She does not like you enough to exclusively see you only. By meeting her ex, she is playing with fire.
You did not show her where your boundary is so she step over it. Don’t be confused by gender. Love is love.
Don’t be shocked if she gets back together with that person.