Am I too sensitive?
Recently a series of things happened and I’m getting more and more easily agitated. Not sure is it I’m sensitive?
One day I found out that my MIL went thru our cupboard in masterbedroom and took out 1 of my clothes and put on my bed. I personally don’t like ppl to touch my things, so I nagged at my hubby. I want him to tell her don’t touch my things. My hubby was a little irritated at me and we quarreled.
Another day I was de cluttering my house, I threw out a lot of things. My MIL went thru the rubbish when I went out. She took out a figurine (not she bought anyway) that I discarded and placed it in my living room. When I saw it I flared. I turned to my hubby and asked why is it that your mum likes to touch my things. If I discard means I don’t want it. As I nagged my hubby felt irritating and we quarreled again.
Another day, I found out that she has been using our osim leg massage and never turn off the electricity after use. I asked my hubby why your mother can turn on when want to use but never turn off after use lei? My hubby said aiya small thing la. Honestly to me is a small thing BUT I’m the one paying for everything in the house. Why I cannot interfere in this?
Another day, I saw with my own eyes that my MIL likes to eat at the table and don’t clean up after eating. For example, she eats the bread, bread crumbs dropped on the table. Eyes can see big crumbs she used hand to pick it up. Eyes cannot see ones she don’t clean it. I told my hubby, he just kept quiet.
All these happened when I’m not at home (working). My MIL in my house cos she helps to oversee my helper and bb at home. When I got home then I found out above all. Maybe it’s not the end, but this is a few things that I hv to find out myself when I get home.
Hence recently I’m feeling more and more flared with my MIL. Quarrelling more and more with my hubby becos of her. What should I do?