Tinder chick says she’s 8 months pregnant
Back in mid December me and my gf had an argument and we didn’t talk for over a month. In that time, I ended up having a one night stand from tinder.. it was oral then penetration (no condom, pulled out) the event took no more than 45 min.
Fast forward to sept 1 and she messages me under another alias name on ig and says she’s 8 1/2 months pregnant and is not sure who the father is between me and her ex.
She would like to know who the father for the sake of her baby… Since then I have deleted my social and have been stressing about how potentially this could be my child…
I am torn between wanting to own up and be a dad but I’m also not sure if im ready. I’ve pretty much just have it in the back of my head every day and hope that I’m not the father.
So I come here to see what should i be doing in this situation. I don’t want to open communication with her because I really don’t even know her, I had completely forgotten all about her.
What happens in cases like these? Any moral or legal advise?
- i love how he adds “the whole event took no longer than 45 minutes” like there’s some rule that you have to be inside someone for an hour to get pregnant lol
- Y’all are crazy and dumb for having unprotected intercourse with people you don’t know. Pulling out is not effective and doesn’t protect you from STDs either. It’s your own fault for not taking proper measures.
- Dude get a paternity test once that kid is born. Do not agree to anything until you have proof.
- I met a chick on tinder and as I went for a condom she said, “oh you can just pull out.” I stopped, laughed out loud, and lost all my desire to get laid.
When she said those words I just envisioned her getting pregnant and my life falling apart.