So I am gay and I le other girls like me… I’m here in this country where gay rights are almost non existent and that also means no marriage rights yet! Most of my family is homophobic so I don’t tell them much about my life, I’ve come out to my parents but they didn’t take it well so I’ve stopped telling them anything
Now whenever there is any kind of family function every relative and every person in the party will make it a point to come and ask me what is my plans for marriage, I ask them why they so concerned and they be like I’m the youngest girl in the family it’s time you are 27 bla bla bla… for few instances I just changed the topic, but now it’s getting really annoying, now my answers are typically I don’t wanna get married, or why should I be married or I just ask them the pros of getting married and the last one I love when they struggle to find a proper answer
Anyways at a recent function one of my cousins (is like in her later 30s) asked me why I’m not deciding to get married, and if something is wrong with me (I kid you not she asked me this) and I asked her what does she mean by something being wrong with me… she said she recently saw my FB post where I was talking about gay rights and she thinks that I plan to “change my sides of interest” …. all I replied was how bad would it be if that happened? She said “you know you’re going to hell right if you change your sides” … oh my that was trigger point so i replied “oh ya! You’d know all about sins and going to hell, cause you’ve done a couple of them yourself (got pregnant before marriage .. not that I believe in all this but I was in a real Tit for Tat mood)
She got furious, stormed out went and complained to my parents about what a jerk I was and my parents and entire family have been calling me names!!!!
But how is it my fault when someone is like deliberately trying to trigger me!