I’m kinda curious about what goes through your heads when you see an ‘attractive’ girl – whatever that means to you. Physical attributes like height or the way she dresses, or non-physical attributes like hobbies, jobs, or things you have in common. Also if things like family, job, income, education or race matter to you.
Also is there a difference in girls you find attractive when walking down the street for example vs girls you want to date and how you want to meet them?
I’m asking because i feel like i’m super disconnected from sg culture and am tryna find someone but i have no idea what guys like or where to even start finding people!! (dating apps aside)
also pls don’t tell me to be myself because that’s clearly not going anywhere rn lmao thanks 🙂 all perspectives r extremely welcome n much appreciated lol
Here are a few interesting comments:
- Personality is everything to me. I want someone I can talk and laugh with when we are 60+
- Compatible values & life goals, Intelligence, critical thinking , Similar humour, personality, interests , Physically attractive
- There was a man who had 3 girlfriends, but he did not know which one to marry. So he decided to give each 1 $5000 and see how each of them spent it. The first 1 went out and got a total makeover with the money. She got new clothes, a new hairdo, manicure, pedicure, the works, and tells the man, “I spent the money so I could look pretty for you because I love you so much.”
The 2nd one went out and bought new golf clubs, a Dvd player, a television, and a stereo and gave them to the man. She said, “I bought these gifts for you with the money because I love you so much.” The 3rd one takes the $5000 and invests it in the stock market, doubles her investment, returns the $5000 to the man and reinvests the rest. She says, “I am investing the rest of the money for our future because I love you so much.”
The man thought hard about how each of the women spent the money. Finally, he decided to marry the one with the biggest tits.
- I play table tennis, so if she plays the sport it’s a plus. And I feel if the hobby is rarer, the attraction rates go up? HAHAHAHA. I like to collect action figures. If she could participate in a 5 min conversation about it, she’s the most attractive woman in the world to me.
- I find a girl who can hold her own and always has this “bright spark” aura around herself and her peers very attractive. Can carry a conversation and an infectious positive energy ard her. One more crucial thing would also be how she treats others ard her too. If you ask about physique and looks, a nice smile. 🙂