Cheating husband wants me back – Should I forgive him?
Through all the years that I’ve known my hubby, I never thought he was the cheating type.
The affair started back in 2019 when the girl joined an F&B outlet where my hubby is the manager and she is a divorcee. Knowing that my hubby is the cousin of the owner, she tried every way to get close to my hubby. She was aware that my hubby is a married man.
She tried to seduce him to get his attention. After a month of trying, she managed to get him by having S with him.
They have been meeting everyday after work and she demands for him to fetch her every night, accompany her for meals and dating before sending her back to the hostel where she stays. Even took off together to have their affair either in her hostel where no one around and even book a hotel to continue their affair.
One day she discovered she was pregnant and decided to abort the baby because she is a Malaysian holding a work permit here with single status. She told my hubby that if she went back to Malaysia she will for sure get caught and do not want to end up in prison. My hubby believed her and gave her money to abort the baby on 24th November 2022. They continued their affair till one day she demanded for him to marry her as his second wife. At first my hubby worried if I will ask for a divorce. As she insisted, on 26th November 2022, my hubby asked me if he can marry her.
When I asked if she was his staff, he denied it. Till one day I saw his messages to her. I asked him to divorce me but he refused and told me that he still loves me very much. I was very sad and cried, asking him repeatedly why he cheated on me? This girl tried every way so I can leave him so she can be with him.
The worst was one day when I saw her and she told me I was old while she was young. She told me to operate my face and body. She even posted on FB to insult me. She broke my marriage and yet dared to insult me on FB.
My hubby bought her branded bag, watches and spend her at expensive restaurant and hotel. Gave her a monthly allowance. She probably feels proud that she could seduce her manager and make use of him for her benefit. She loved to brag that she was his girlfriend and nobody can scold her.
As a wife. I had to tolerate the times he spent his off-days with her, even lying to me that he has no off-days due to manpower shortage.
Recently he told me that he loved me and will not want to divorce. He told me he broke up with her and promised to change. I just want to get an opinion if I should give him another chance or proceed with the divorce.