Cheated on 10 days after the wedding… so i revenge cheated.
So I 25F have been married to my husband 27M for 2 years. 10 days after our wedding, he went to a bar and got a girl’s number and was planning to meet her until I caught him.
He had little remorse but I forgave him for a number of reasons.
2 months after this event, he left the country and didn’t return due to some reasons. I have spent the past year and 10 months cheating on him, one of the men, I caught feelings for.
I think I’ve slept with a total of ten guys since he’s been gone. My husband doesn’t suspect me at all.
Sometimes I feel bad for what I’m doing, but then I remember the pain he inflicted on my right after our wedding. Now he’s coming back. I hope the guilt doesn’t come back to haunt me.
Am I a bad wife?
Netizens’ comments
- Why be married? Honestly, this makes no sense to me. If you two were in some sort of open relationship that’s one thing, but this just seems toxic. You two don’t need to waste your lives with each other if this is how you both feel about your relationship
- Damn you both sound like terrible people so that works out great! You’re perfect for each other
- You shouldn’t have said you forgave him if you didn’t mean it. You two are probably well suited for each other. Keep up the revenge cheating, he will probably catch on and start revenge cheating, too. Scratch that, he’s probably already f-ng every woman who will let him.
- I get like maybe one guy and then being like ok I feel a little bad but we are even- but 10…. You have some issues and probably shouldn’t be married.