Husband’s behavior has changed after marriage
My husband and I have been together for 6 years before we got married. Everything was good and he was nice to me and appreciative. However, things started to change after we got married.
During my first trimester I requested to go out for supper at 10pm but he asked me to eat whatever is at home instead. But all the time, he would stay out late with his friends at the void deck but not bring me out for food. He would ask me to grab myself (1 pax portion at $10 which I felt was not worth it).
Our S activity also went down as we transitioned into marriage. After we got married, he told me that he has a low s** drive. This never crossed my mind before, but I eventually believed him. However, recently I found out that he has been actively watching P. I feel so upset, unhappy and betrayed. I offered for intimacy, he rejected, and instead prefers to watch other girls on a website? Why?
Now that I am pregnant and have given birth, I wonder if this was why he turned to P?
I don’t know if I should confront him about it. Every time we discuss something serious he will just laugh and put the matter behind. I’m not sure if it’s nice to question him on it as well.
Here are what netizens think:
- You can also tell him love language like “I loved you, I appreciated you etc” be confident dear, you are his wife. The one who had been through thick and thin with them, the one who gave him a lovely child.
- I think it’s important to talk to him seriously about this as it can snowball to a more serious issue.Work something out whether is it taking time to spend alone time together to build up your romance again.