Why does my husband prefer my bewbs rather than piv?
We’re both early 30s and each others firsts. So we’re still exploring and learning together. We are married going on 7 years now with kids but try to make getting intimate a priority as much as possible.
I have bewbs on the bigger side, always have, but recently I’ve noticed that he prefers f-g them instead of PIV. I mean I still love it but obviously I can’t finish through it.
The only thing I can think of is that he lasts a bit longer because generally he has always finished quite quickly.
Through the years I’ve been able to work him through slowing down and lasting a bit longer but his impatience gets the better of him a lot.
When he does slow down (because he literally is thrusting like it’s the Olympics) it’s a lot more pleasurable for me. Even with my bewbs though he doesn’t last a whole lot longer so I wonder why he prefers it.
Once he’s inside me he’s a goner and we love it but we do use condoms (we are done with kids) and on one hand he refuses to go without them because he’s scared like crazy of us having another but the rare time he’s gone raw and pulled out it’s been so amazing and the way he sighs in pleasure just makes me sad for him.
I was hoping for a second opinion on his preference and how I should deal with keeping a balance because I obviously still want piv. Thank you!
Netizens’ comments
- My guess is it’s simply the condom thing. He can go raw this way without impregnation fears.
- (OP) He did mention it’s the condom I guess I was just thrown off because we’ve been using them for years. But the past year we’ve been exploring a bit more and I think he’s figuring out his preferences and likes and dislikes so it makes sense . I’ll try to be a bit patient but also other times gently guide him to piv to Maintain a balance. Thanks!
- Why doesn’t he get a vasectomy? They’re super easy and it doesn’t hurt that bad.
- Not a man, but absolutely do not use pulling out as contraception unless you want to get pregnant.