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HUSBAND REVEALS HIS TRUE COLOURS AFTER MARRIAGE & TURNED INTO ANOTHER PERSON

I (29f) just got married to someone I really love (31m), but they suddenly changed right after the wedding
I am devastated rn.

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So my husband and I were dating for about 1.5 years before we got married. We just seemed perfect for each other, not that either of us is perfect, but we’re a really good team, had common interests and goals in life, same sense of humor, communicate well, and encouraged each other to be better versions of ourselves.

One night before getting married we put all our goals on paper, we both agreed to them together, and started to save up for them.

These goals included having kids and starting a family, traveling to different places, and I want to support him and like it too, getting a nice house etc.

So up until about a month after getting married, we were both talking about family planning and when the best time to get pregnant would be. He even suggested we start trying the next month.

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Well a month goes by and it slips out during a conversation that he doesn’t want kids anymore due to him not making enough money mainly, but then after I debunked that since we both make decent money he says he just doesn’t want them and doesn’t want to be a dad.

In addition, all the plans we made together turned into him quitting his job and travelling the world alone with his dog for the rest of his life…

So I’ve been crying for the past week or so non-stop. For context, I’m catholic and he is christian, and we took traditional vows, including being open to life.

He’s gaslighting me telling me I’m overreacting, it’s not a big deal, there’s plenty of other stuff to do in life than raise kids, people change.

He also said he came to this conclusion over time but that’s a lie since he was suggesting we start trying not even a month ago. I feel like such an idiot.

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How can you do that to someone and act like it’s not a big deal? That’s a major decision you make before marriage. Plus setting flames to all our plans…

I’m going to try and talk to him some more but if he doesn’t change will seek annullment. Hoping he’ll snap out of this.

Any advice on how long I should wait for him or if any guys on here went through a similar phase right after getting married?

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