My wife is the best wife I could ask for, she loves cooking, she’s funny, she’s loving… but awful in bed. She’s the most vanilla person on the planet I swear.
She only likes 2 positions, missionary and doggy. And is only willing to do one more (cowgirl) if I really want to. She won’t do reverse cowgirl even.
I’m only “allowed” to come either in her or on a paper towel to throw away. Can’t come even on her stomach.
She’s also let herself go and I’m becoming less and less attracted to her. She wants to do it daily which would be 100% fine with me if she would let us mix it up a little but doing missionary 90% of the time is becoming redundant.
I don’t even come every time we do it and when I do it’s because I’m imagining someone else. I’m pretty kinky myself but I don’t NEED to do super kinky stuff I’d be thrilled with just being allowed to come on her very now and then.
She doesn’t even give me head but once a month if I’m lucky. And even then it’s only for 2 minutes until she’s bored.
I’ve found myself so desperate for something new that I find myself looking at every semi attractive women and thinking stuff like “I bet she’d do more than missionary if we were married”.
I’m starting to resent my wife which I hate because she’s perfect in every way except the bedroom.
Any advice on how to go about telling her I need more from her in the bedroom? She’s self-conscious so I need to tread lightly.