A story emerged online about a wife complaining about her husband telling her time and time again that it is okay if she cheats on him and he does not mind.
She mentions that he will say this to her from time to time and because of that, they do not have much of a private life as the mood is always ruined.
She thinks that it is because his exes have always cheated on him and therefore he is insecure even when she assures him that she loves him and will never do that to him.
Here is the story
“My husband and I, we’ve been married for two years. He has been cheated on before in his past relationships and it crushed him.
I don’t cheat and never will.
He will randomly say “oh I’d understand if you did and It’s okay if you cheated/left me” time and time again.
I know 100% he’s not cheating on me. I am extremely sure he loves me.
All his exes have left him in the past and it sort of left a memory on him.
I tried to assure him that I will never treat him like how his exes have treated him and that I love him wholeheartedly but he will always brush me off with a “don’t say it too early”.
As a result of his insecurity, our private life is as good as non-existent or even dead.
We’re both 30.
I think he’s just insecure and doesn’t mean to be like this but it really gets on my nerves sometimes.”
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