My husband says work is easier for me because I’m pretty…..
So just as the title states I work in a manufacturing company as one of the managers. Part of my job is to create reports to the higher ups and often times in front of big groups of the team.
Point being I’m always asking my co workers if my presentation is OK. Basically if I’m doing a good job or not because often times my reports are “scolding them” and calling out their defects but in reality, it’s only to make them a stronger, better team, and figure out where our problems are.
I never want to come across as an a-hole but I am stern when it comes to serious matters.
So far (I started almost a year ago) my team and boss tell me I’m doing a good job which makes me feel good, especially when I feel insecure about my work. (My insecurities are separate point lol)
anyways when I do a pat on the back and I know I worked really hard to get my job done I tell my husband of my moment. He tells me I’m doing good and all but he often likes to add that it’s easier for me because I’m pretty.
I don’t like it when he tells me that because I feel like he’s undermining my work and all the effort I’m putting into it.
I don’t think looks play any role into what I’m doing aside from maybe being able to small talk easier? My looks don’t generate my reports or lead a meeting it’s my presentation and how I handled the situation I would say.
I almost feel this post sounds stuck up but he insists that he’s correct and not wrong about this, i