I’m a 25 y/o woman and I regularly go to the gym. I’ve been going a few times a week since January. I tend to go late-ish like 9pm and i stay there for about two hours.
Well I had finished and walked out like normal to go back to my car when I see a car in the parking lot drive and come near me and some guy yelled “aye girl Ai sio gan mai” (dirty Hokkien term asking for…) At first I thought nothing of it like whatever so stupid.
So I get inside my car and I see them park in the gym parking lot in front of me but diagonally sort of. I locked my doors and turned my gear to drive and had my foot on the gas in case anyone came up. I sat there for a moment thinking of what to do bc I didn’t want to let it go.
Well they decide to drive slowly and straight in front of me so their drivers side was facing me but still kinda far like it’s a big plaza parking lot. I took a photo of their car lol and I still waited. I saw them move a little and I started to follow but then they saw me and stopped.
They waited about 3-5 minutes w/o moving and so did I. I took a few more pics. I then decided that maybe I should just drop it and drive off. I barely got out of the parking lot when I changed my mind and came back and sneakily parked into an NTUC nearby and turned my lights off but kept my car on. I could see them leaving the parking lot so I immediately follow behind them and take a picture of their plates.
They recognized me and tried to turn but i drove off immediately and to make sure they didn’t follow I drove around a bit before I went home.
I’m going to email the gym with the photos and screenshots of me texting my friends w the time showing so they can also look at their security footage.
Basically going to say that if he goes to this gym they should do something about it because it’s absolutely deranged that a guy would harass women leaving the gym at nearly 12am.
I know he probably thought it was a joke and funny but it’s really not and he needs to learn his lesson.