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Im a person with very little friends, in fact close to none. I am married, my life just revolve around my family. Sometimes i feel like i dont have someone to talk to, or nobody to hang out with, while my husband has plenty of friends and activities.
Im happy, but im lonely at times. As much as my family is there for me, it still does not feel right. I dont know how to make new friends at this point of time. People around me are either busy with their own families and kids, or they are just partying their life away, which is not what i want. Im expecting soon. Sometimes i wish i have friends, even if its just one or two whom i can hang out with and share things with. Some friends who are on the same “channel” as me…
Here are what netizens think:
- Once you give birth to your child and start enrolling him/her to a childcare in a year or two part time, you ll have plenty of mommy friends. I moved here from USA and had zero friends.. but slowly made friends w mommies and went on playdates often with a bunch of little ones. Don’t worry, u will be fine! Stay happy n healthy for your child as she can feel what mommy is feeling Jia you!
- Better to be alone than to be in bad company. Get used to it. You come into this world alone, you will leave this world alone and on your own.
- Friendships, are ongoing selfless mental and time investments that stem from constant sincere care and concern. Its not an object when you feel you like to own when you need it
- Join a community for pregnant mummies. You can find them in forums etc. If not join one from your religion. There is always something out there for you. It all depends whether you truly wants it anot.