I’ve been together with my boyfriend for nearly one and a half years. We met during orientation and thing went on smoothly afterwards. My boyfriend was kinda sweet to me in the beginning when we were dating.
He would usually shower me with gifts and take me out to eat good and delicious food, which I really enjoy. But anyway, after we got together officially in the 2nd semester, we started to stay over at each other’s hostel room (thankfully we were both staying in single rooms at that time). I would say that things started to be more intense afterwards. He would start to introduce me to some ‘films’ and we would watch it together, especially during Friday nights since we don’t have school on Saturday. He would ask me to try out certain positions while watching those films. I’m definitely new to it but I do love these intense actions and what he’s doing to me.
Furthermore, it’s usually on Friday nights so not many people are in the hostel so we can be slightly noisy a bit.
However, recently, I’m kind of feeling very drained as we are spending nearly 4 to 5 hours every week.
Loyalty test
My friends told me that I should test him since he was so “active” and I agreed. My friend called my boyfriend on the loudspeaker and said that she quarrelled with me and asked if they could hang out.
My boyfriend pause on the phone for a few seconds and said “why not?” Then my friend said “I was thinking to go over your place to hangout maybe watch a movie and netflix… and chill?”.
My boyfriend pause for a few more seconds and said “yes, but she (my name) must not know, it must be a secret”.
I exploded and grabbed the phone and questioned him. He hanged up immediately.
What should I do? Should I break up with him? We haven’t talk for 2 days.