Hi all! What do you think about this situation?
My boyfriend (35) and I (28) are planning a trip in April. I decided to buy a couple cocktails dresses for the occasion.
I found a couple that I think would be flattering to my body. I have a small chest and waist but wide hips and butt.
I workout to be proud of my body even though society’s standards might not agree.
When my boyfriend saw my dresses, he became angry and asked, “are you going to wear a bra with that?” and “you need to wear a bra that makes you look like you have something.”
I am convinced he is ashamed of my body. I told him I am proud of the way my body looks and I think the dresses I found were very flattering for the itty bitty committee but he disagrees.
What do you think about this?
Netizens’ comments
- Tell him to f off.
- i think you should bring some friends to the trip instead of that oaf, but that’s jus me 🤷🏼♀️ man seems too old to be saying juvenile things like that
- Offer to pack an extra set of socks for him to ‘pad’ ‘things’ out so it looks like HE has ‘something’
- Wow, dude has a lot of nerve.
Who cares what he thinks. Love your body and be proud of it. If he doesn’t love and appreciate it there are plenty of men or women out there that will. Wear whatever the hell you want and screw him! - It should not be his choice. It’s your body and as long as your proud nothing else really matters.