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MAN ASKING FOR ADVICE HOW TO REJECT FRIENDS POLITELY THAT WANTS A JOB

I’ve graduated for couple years now and recently old friends started to reconnect.

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Randomly initiated communication with University acquaintances has gone from “Hi, you want to go out have coffee? (Insurance)” to “Hi, can you refer me into your company?”

I find it hard to reject the request so I try to help – not really looking for a referral bonus since I may want to leave.

It got really annoying when the person demanded how she can get the job (basically asked me for a sure-win strategy to offer to her future boss) and a lot of sensitive info.

I didn’t want to reveal sensitive data so I gave vague info and the conversation went in the direction of “I still do not have a plan after talking to you”. “This convo is not helpful”.

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What is the world coming to?

Why are people feeling so entitled?

Why is it that she feels it’s my job to think of a way for her to secure this job even though I haven’t seen nor talked to this person for past 10 years?

I got very tired halfway through and just agreed to whatever was being said even if it was blatantly wrong. Didn’t feel like this person is worth my time.

I ended the call by pretending I had another call (again, not good at rejecting)

How should I reject these people nicely Or let them know in a civilised manner Idm helping to refer but stop talking to me like I’m her biatch.

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Thank you for all the help and inspirations in advance!

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