I hooked up with a girl and she thanked me for treating her with respect
Two days ago I matched with this girl on Tinder and she came over so we can meet each other. We talked for about 3 hours and I immediately gained an interest in her. She had this positive energy radiating from her and I could not stop staring into her eyes.
After we stopped talking we started making out and eventually made love. It was nothing special or anything but I felt this deep connection with her and wanted to make her feel good. She spent the night and I woke up with her in my arms and I have never felt more at peace in my life at the moment.
After she left she sent me a message thanking me for the night and for treating her with kindness. She mentioned that her last couple relationships were extremely toxic and mean to her and she had bad experiences with men in the past and she thanked me profusely for treating her body with respect.
I didn’t do anything that special. She was extremely anxious in the beginning and asked me to stop multiple times so she could calm herself down and I did not think much of it in the moment other than asking if she was okay but I understand now.
I replied and we are going mini golfing tomorrow and I can not wait. I want to make this work. She made it clear in the beginning that she was looking for a serious relationship and said that I make her comfortable.
I want to be with her so bad. I also got out of a bad relationship last year and closed myself off from people completely but with her I feel safe and heard.
Netizens’ comments
- Keep listening to her and treating her like a Queen. Communicate and communicate. Make sure you are listening to her even if it mean asking her what she meant. I am so happy for you. Keep us updated.
- Word of advice bro, eliminate the phrase “nothing special” from your vocabulary, because you seem to only use it to describe things that are, in fact, very special. That’s going to get you in a heap of trouble if you say it at the wrong moment.
- Good luck brother. Sounds like if you keep following the head on top of your shoulders, you’ll be just fine!