my (ftm18) boyfriend (m18) broke down about me not liking his singing voice
we’ve been dating for 5 months. a few days ago, while i was super drunk, my boyfriend had a complete breakdown, sobbing for at least two hours straight, about me not liking his singing voice.
he’s not a good singer and he starts singing at me (typically very annoying songs) at random times, sometimes even in the middle of conversations.
when he asks for my input, i dont sugar coat things, but i give him honest and constructive feedback. my biggest interest is music and i rate/review music for fun, so i’m particularly turned off by bad music (i’m also autistic and have sensory issues, which probably plays in).
he claimed that he’s been trying to practice and get better for me so he can sing me songs and we can sing together (i’m decently good at singing and he likes my voice).
he thinks it’s some sort of common relationship thing? he claims that his roommates have asked him to sing for them (which is most definitely a lie. he has issues with compulsive lying).
the worst part about all of this is because i was drunk, i wasn’t thinking right, so i just took the blame and apologized profusely instead of sharing my side.
he said purposely brought it up and subsequently had the breakdown while i was drunk because it would make me more chill about it.
i’ve been trying SO hard to be nice to him after that about his voice, but it seriously can be insufferable for me.
what do i even do about this?
TLDR: boyfriend broke down about me not liking his singing voice and now i have to put up with insufferable singing and an expectation to give feedback. i need it to stop but don’t know how to address it.