My true-blue Singaporean friend met an American girl who works in his company. She works in different department and they developed a strong friendship which turned into lovers.
American gf had to go back because permit not renewed
Recently, his American tall pretty girlfriend told him that she is leaving the company as the company didn’t extend her work permit. She has to go back to US if she can’t find another job.
She initiated the breakup with my friend as she said that it’s impossible for her to stay in Singapore unless she has another job and WP sponsorship.
Their relationship has been very loving and stable. They always giggle when with friends and also have the couple look. They have been together for a year and their anniversary V-Day is coming up soon.
My friend wants to propose to her so that at least she can stay with him in Singapore. As it’s his first relationship, he said he is saving himself for her on their wedding night.
We laughed when he said that but my other Singaporean friend commented that he is a keeper. He has also never been in a long distance relationship and doesn’t want to as he will miss her company.
His father does not approve of her due to her culture
However, his father has been very disapproving of his American girlfriend as she always dress little and can be seem as rude to his father and family.
His father even said that his girlfriend may no more be a ‘V’. His father told him not to bring back a wedlock grandchild or he will be kicked out of the house.
My friend also doesn’t want to move to USA as he has no friends there and he has to eat burgers and fries everyday.
He also wants to be close to his family. And he is also scared that he will miss out on reservists and get the MR reward.
He knows that his father will disapprove and even disown him if he marries his girlfriend. But he really loves her and she is independent and hardworking, unlike Singaporean gals whom he met in university.
He wants to propose to her on V-Day but he is very stressed.
Should he marry her and lose his family or break up with her and find another girl?