My husband just threw all the food I made him to celebrate his promotion and I have no one to confide in
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I recently got married (less than 6 months). Husband got a promotion and I made him a nice dinner and asked if he wanted eat and celebrate with me.
He says no, I sigh and say okay.. I’ll just leave it here.
He comes up to me and tells me I’m being annoying bc he didn’t want to eat. Proceeds to throw the plate I made him from scratch into the trash.
Been driving around for 4 hours. Despite having friends and family, I have no one to confide
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Netizens’ comments
- Dont let him act and treat you like that without conséquences or it will be just the beginning!!
- Tell him ” I put a lot of time and energy into something to celebrate an acheivement of yours and you choose to belittle me and throw away my efforts. I don’t deserve to be treated like that and I won’t tolerate being treated like that. I need a sincere apology and an understanding if this happens again, our relationship will be over. “
- I’ve been married for 20 yrs… so let me tell you something.. He will treat you the way you allow him to treat you. Don’t allow this behavior. You set boundaries on how you want to be treated, and you don’t compromise. If he crosses those boundaries, you make good on the conditions you set with those boundaries. 6 mo in, this is alarming behavior. And if you don’t demand better and set hard boundaries how and have a back up plan to leave if he A. doesn’t recognize that his behavior was out of line AND B. Makes a real effort to get his temper under control.
- I’m sorry OP. I’m sure your meal was wonderful. What did you make? I know I can’t eat it but I’ll always appreciate hearing about home-cooked meals that people put their heart into.
As for your husband, he owes you a big apology at minimum. He doesn’t get to belittle you, and especially not for something as minor as being discouraged by his attitude. Is he always like this?