How could a man date a masseuse in Johor Bahru and accept the fact that providing services is part and parcel of her job if she wants to earn more?
That’s exactly what I thought too. I’ve been dating my girlfriend, who is a masseuse in JB, for over a year and recently found out that after every work shift, her wallet is filled with money obtained from providing services.
How it all started
I still remember the first time that I met her while going across the border for a massage.
The parlour was about to close and she had came down from her accommodation to pass something to the counter staff and seeing that most of the masseuse were still busy, the counter staff asked her to massage me.
That was when it all started, I had an instant attraction to her because she was very pretty, had excellent massage skills and had a good body.
We got together after a few months of me going to support her and she promised me that she would not provide services anymore to other men.
Fast forward a year later and things were still going great, however I discovered that she was still providing services without my knowledge.
Wallet always full of cash after she ends work
One day after she finished work, we went for supper.
I did not bring cash with me that day and she offered to pay.
When she opened her wallet, I saw a thick wad of 50 and 100 ringgit bills inside her wallet.
That was when I realised that she was still providing services.
I was shocked and felt betrayed. How could she do this without telling me? I was so angry and hurt and I felt like I didn’t know her at all. I wanted to end things right then and there but something held me back.
Claims she wants to earn more so she can quit her job faster
After I calmed down, I asked her why she didn’t tell me. She said she was scared I would judge her or not understand.
She explained that she was doing it to make ends meet and that she didn’t enjoy it. She said she was trying to save up enough money so she could quit and pursue her dream of becoming a yoga instructor.
That was when I realized that I still loved her and that I was willing to support her. I told her that I would help her in any way I could and that I would never judge her for what she is doing anymore.
I also promised that I would never do anything to jeopardize our relationship.
I don’t think many guys can be like me, allowing your girlfriend to provide services for other men but at the end of the day, I just want her to be happy.