I gave up hope on looking for love.
I was told to be nice, to be kind, to make surprises, to buy her flowers, to celebrate special dates and holiday, to have a car, to have a house, to compliment her, to understand her, to be her crying shoulder, to lift her up, to support her, to never abuse her, and the list goes on.
I did everything.. I did all I was told to do..
But what did I get in return?
Left behind on my worst day.
No support when I needed it.
“You’re too nice for me” she said.
And she ended up staying longer with someone abusive and complained that she didn’t get “treated right”.
I don’t think I’ll ever understand this culture anymore.
I gave up. I’m not looking anymore. I did my best.
Here are what netizens think:
- Don’t waste your time with local women, they’re as entitled as Western women, source from villages in the surrounding countries, ones that will accept traditional gender roles.
- Don’t let one bad experience or even more defeat you. Sometimes you can do everything right, but it’s not meant to be. Instead, look on the positive side that you did not end up stuck with someone who wasn’t going to appreciate you. The love you desire will come when you least expect it…it might take a while to sift through but don’t give up on it. There are so many nice people out there who would love to have you as a partner…you just haven’t had the chance to meet them yet.
- Ok. Good. The best ones are always the ones you least expect anyway. Go use this time to be productive and build yourself and your worth. Because your worth ain’t much if it’s dependent on the woman that left you. Heal that wound. Enjoy yourself too.
- don’t ever measure yourself based on what she wants. doubting your self worth would be the silliest thing to do. Do good be good and you will be appreciated by the right person in time to come.