I started seeing this girl recently. No idea what her salary is but my best guess is it’s a comfortable amount and around a third of mine.
She is very nice to me and makes me very happy. Not that it matters to me but she is also very submissive and listens to everything I say. She is also incredible in bed.
Here’s the weird part. We’ve been to nice restaurants twice since we started dating and she has never offered to split the bill or even thanked me when I paid. All our other dates have been free of charge activities. Normally most girls will pretend to reach for the wallet on the first date or offer to pay on the second date or offer to get you dessert or movie tickets or something small. Or at the very least express acknowledgement and appreciation. None of that from her.
I don’t expect a girl to split the bill with me but some token form like the examples I listed I think is normal. In the past, I’ve also stopped dating girls if they behave like this past 3 dates. I do like this girl though and so far in all other aspects, she is really good to me.
What do people here think of this situation and the way she is behaving?
Is there also some good way for me to bring this up? I am also concerned bringing it up might ruin the relaxed but fun dynamic between us.