To those in a rs, I never unds why it is so hard to stay faithful to your partner. Not saying this applies to all, but a subset.
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If you’ve decided to commit yourself to your partner, then stick thru thick and thin. Temptation is always there, and feelings fade, but for what you standby shall not.
What constitutes cheating? Imo emotional is worst off than physical. I’m not interested in being a third party in someone’s rs. So even if you have no respect for others, please have some respect for yourself. If you can’t be with the person at their worse, you don’t deserve their best.
Here are what netizens think:
- Marriage and commitment are social constructs that came about in order to ensure that societies are not rampantly filled with illegitimate children, inbreeding etc because these are not in favour of peak human evolution. We are gifted with a higher sentience than non-human animals but that’s about it. Fighting against the primal nature of biology in exchange for a civilised world is a perfect example of this cognitive dissonance. Now, note that I’m not condoning cheating be it emotional or physical. Just offering an explanation on why many people of both genders find it difficult to remain faithful to a single partner throughout. It’s just not part of the hardwire that’s all.
- To err is human. Why do you want to understand something that you don’t understand? Unless this happened around or to you? No one is born a saint. We are all capable of hurting someone we love and I’m not talking about just infidelity. I do not have empathy for cheaters but I do feel bad for the betrayed. Especially when there are children involved.
- When you are as handsome as me, there will be many women trying to seduce me. When that happens, I just think of my daughters and want to be a good role model for them.
- First up, I agree cheating is wrong. However, if your partner is often giving you his or her worst, just dump. Walk out. I have no sympathy for anyone who thinks they are entitled to poor behaviour. Nobody is beholden to be good to anyone. It is a conscious choice and people can choose (and should choose) to walk out if bad behaviour persists. Nobody deserves anyone at their worst. Get this into your head. Behave badly, get deservedly dumped. If you behave badly but don’t want to be dumped, then perhaps you need to live with cheating. Otherwise, get your act together.