I lost attraction to a woman because she smelled like poop when were in bed together and now she’s angry at me.
We were hooking up doggy style when I noticed the back shot air literally stunk like poop. I was immediately turned off and I found myself thinking the next day that I don’t wanna sleep with this person anymore.
I find a lack of hygiene to be inconsiderate and even a little disrespectful to partners; especially when its noticeable during intimacy.
I tried to be mature and have the conversation in person but even then I knew she would take it pretty bad. She spirals down into very negative thoughts about herself and I didn’t want her to think there was anything wrong with her as a person so I tried to bring her down slowly.
When the morning rolled around she made a joke about me going to work and basically ended it with “You’ll provide for us, baby” which I just had to shut down.
I was already trying to figure out what I was gonna say but that kinda made me realize that she has far deeper feelings and intentions for me than she initially displayed.
I told her that while I think she’s a great person, I don’t think we should continue seeing each other or hooking up anymore.
She immediately spiraled and I went into repair mode. I tried to minimize damage by blaming myself. In short I basically gave her the “Its not you, its me” cliche and it kinda worked too well because she exploded on me a couple of days later in my Instagram messages.
It was then she accused me of only dating “the wrong people” so that I could have a pedestal to put myself on.
She said that she was the best option for me and that I’m stupid for not wanting to be with her. She accused me of chasing dysfunction because its the only way for me to appear good or functional by comparison.
That actually made my angry but I still bit my tongue. I wanted to tell her really bad that I really just called things off because she smelled like a marinated rubbish bin and still expected me to f her.
I just left her on delivered and she blocked me after an hour of me not responding.