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MAN FEELS LONELY, SO MANY GROUP CHATS BUT NO ONE MESSAGES HIM

Any solutions or advice for my problem?

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Hi, this is my situation right now.

I have 5 different WhatsApp chat groups and 2 telegram group chats. Sadly, no matter how big the group size is, I only get 10 messages a day. No don’t get me wrong, it’s not that I want attention or personalised messages for myself, it’s just that everyone else phone get light up with at least 100 messages a day?..

yes, they’re all for group chats.

Yes, they’re not personalised messages finding the specifically.

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Yes, they’re not from a boyfriend or girlfriend, I know.

BUT HOW DO THEY GET SO MANY WITHOUT THEM PUTTING IN ANY EFFORT? It’s like it’s just 3 out of 10 people actively talking, and their phone will have spam and light up once a minute. Despite all the groups I belong in, my phone can don’t light up for 2 hours one. Why don’t my group chats spam at all?

Which channels or public chats can I join to at least make sure my phone lights up with the same frequency? Don’t reply “I also, I also don’t have messages”, that’s emotional reassurance, not a solution.

Here are what netizens think:

  • I wouldnt want a 100 msgs a day. Discords more nuts, a couple of hundreds per day. Uninstalled, more peace now.
  • u won’t want that. these spam grps usually are new grps in party mode. they will die down in few weeks or a month.
  • other than that it’s those super big grp where most of them are not so close to one another, yet say good morning good afternoon and good night, literally every fkin day. and u wld end up muting them all.
  • I rather not having notifications every single minute. Not annoying meh? Try to use phone to play game then all the notifications suddenly come like that distracting Sia. Sometimes I just mute the group temporarily if the spams get too much. Sorry but I can’t relate to people like you
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