Valentine’s Day has always been a difficult day for me. I was only 11 years old when my father died on Valentine’s Day.
It was a shock to the entire family, and it’s a day I’ve been dreading ever since.
Doesn’t want to celebrate V Day to commemorate Dad
I’m now in my late 20s and I’m ready to find someone special to share my life with. But I’m concerned that any potential girlfriends won’t understand why I don’t want to celebrate Valentine’s Day.
I don’t want to have to explain my reasons every year and have her think I’m some kind of Valentine’s Day Scrooge.
So I’m looking for someone who is open-minded and understanding of my feelings about Valentine’s Day. I want someone who will be okay with not exchanging gifts and not celebrating the day at all.
I’m looking for someone who will accept my feelings and show me the same kind of love and compassion I show her.
I’m also looking for someone who will be supportive and understanding of my decisions to not celebrate Valentine’s Day.
I don’t want someone who will pressure me into celebrating the day or who will make me feel guilty for not wanting to do so.
I want someone who respects my wishes and understands that this is a very personal decision for me.
I want someone who is compassionate and understanding of my feelings. I want someone who will listen to me and offer comfort when I’m feeling sad. And I want someone who will be there to support me when I need it the most.
Most importantly, I want to commemorate my Dad on that day and not on some celebration.
Difficult to find a girl that doesn’t expect anything on V Day
I understand that finding someone who is okay with not celebrating Valentine’s Day may be difficult, but I’m hoping that I can find someone who is understanding and supportive of my feelings. I’m looking for someone who will accept me for who I am and who won’t try to change me.
I’m looking for someone who will appreciate my feelings and who will be willing to create unique ways to show me their love.
I’m looking for someone who will be there for me when I’m feeling down and who will remind me all year round how special I am to them.
Finding someone who is okay with not celebrating Valentine’s Day may be a challenge, but I know that with the right person, anything is possible.
I’m looking for someone who will love me for who I am and who will be okay with not celebrating Valentine’s Day.