Wife(29F) has been cheating on me (26M) and is planning on taking everything
Posting on here as I don’t know where else to turn to for advice.
Hello, I just discovered my wife of 4 years been cheating on me for months with another man. I came back home from work one day to hear her talking with another man on the phone, she tried to claim he was just a friend but I knew better.
I looked through her phone to find out the worst- she was cheating on me and had been for months.
In their messages, she said she plans to leave me and take everything. She said she would claim I’d been emotionally absent and cruel and take everything I have.
Please, any advice for divorce proceedings would be great, I’m just so upset and confused about everything right now.
Netizens’ comments
- If you can get her phone – screenshot EVERYTHING that proves your innocence. Have it for your lawyer.
- Before you divorce her.. record what you found, especially her messages about taking everything – it would work in your favour
Record or take title of assets in your name, keep it and record it all.
Change all your bank account passwords and signatures
Get your wife’s off all of your insurance plans
Save ALL your bank statements (especially those in the joint account) if she used the account to buy AP gifts… you mgiht claim it back from her - So are you going to ask her about it? Make sure to record her reaction because she might perform a monolog about her plans.
- Withdraw your cash, block her from your bank accounts and credit cards etc. Cancel insurance, change your will etc. copy and save all evidence and see a lawyer urgently. If you can record her conversation, all the better. Protect your self.