A good friend of mine is studying in Australia as a physio, hard working dude with a clear goal in mind. He used to have a local gf (let’s call her W), together in a LDR who he promised that he will return and ask for her hand once he is done with his studies and financially stable.
However, he was met with some setbacks, extended his studies. Few years down the road, a female friend of W (let’s call her MO) who was cheated on by her then bf, began putting thoughts into W’s head that guys studying overseas always cheat on their girlfriends in Sg blah blah blah, and why should W waste time on my poor friend when there are so many other guys in Sg with money and career etc that can satisfy her needs.
In the end, W cheated on him by going on Tinder, meeting guys on the pretext that she is looking for friends but actually, options. In the end she settled for one engineering guy, very shortly after BTOed and recently got married, posting everything on social media, while my poor friend in Australia was left heartbroken on his own during COVID lockdown period back then away from everything, helpless.
Just because of such toxicity, one poor chap had his relationship ended while he is working towards his dream.
I am going on an exchange soon, and I’m really worried, what if someone toxic and blonde like MO, decides to plant thoughts into my girlfriend, and I experience the same outcome. What should I do? I have a good and healthy relationship with my gf, just like my friend and W back then, but things well down south really quickly for them. How can I put it to my gf, that such a topic actually do bothered me? Advices please.
Here are what netizens think:
- When u are going, shoot inside loh.
- If you can lose a gf so easily, then she wasn’t the one to begin with.
- If they stay, you know you’ve found a good one. If they leave, you know you’ve dodged a bullet.
- If they wanna leave, they will one luh. You build a moat with crocodiles also no use.
- Cheating is a matter of individual accountability. Can’t attribute to friend X made Y statement, can’t attribute to Z was so attractive that had to cheat.