Working adults who are dating, is wanting to meet once a week being needy?
Met a girl on an app, went out 5 times over a period of 2 months. We aren’t official, still taking it slow and trying to figure things out since we both need quite some time to be comfortable.
I asked her out right after our most recent date but she said she’s fully occupied for all the weekends this month and it’s difficult to meet on weekdays due to her work. To me it stings because I believe if you like someone, you’ll make time for them.
I do like her and want to develop things further but the lack of meet ups is kinda hindering that. Some dates were 2 weekends apart. And i’m just afraid of coming across as needy if I tell her my thoughts. Fyi, i’ve never been in a rs before and only started dating recently.
For working adults who were in the initial dating phase and in a similar “slow” situation , how did y’all handle this? How did you know to continue or move on?
Netizens’ comments
- She’s not that interested.
I highly suggest the next time she says “I’m busy”, just tell her “no problem, just hit me up when you’re free”.
Then don’t contact her any more.
Plenty of fish in the sea. - Y’all are not official and probably not exclusive? So she may be seeing other guys. Or she doesn’t prioritise getting to know you…
- With women, you need to be clear about what you want. By the 5th date you should have figured out whether she is interested in you and I think you could already ask the question whether she is exclusively dating you or she is still dating others at the same time.
If you are not alright with how things going with her, communicate with her how you feel and see how she reacts.
If she does not think that you are the right person for her, just cut your loses and move on.
Tell her that under no circumstances that you would remain friends with her anymore. It has to be this straightforward. It would save you all the heartache later. - you want the real answers bro? Fully occupied for ALL weekends this month and impossible to meet on weekdays due to work? Thats all bs man
Yes you are right, if they’re really interested in you, they’ll make time. Now dont get me wrong, i dont mean they drop everything else and just focus on you. But come on, no matter how busy you are, at least just a simple dinner will do? Its not so much about what you’re doing, but more of the other party being excited to see you, just as you would want to see them
Unfortunately for you case, she’s just not that into you, time to move on ba