I offended a guy because I took my bf to the restaurant he introduced me to
So I (19f) hung out once or twice with this guy from my school. One day he told me to put on a nice dress and meet him at 8 because he was taking me out.
I told him that no, he wasn’t. He was 31 and I found the age gap creepy. He was really mad and cried that he “thought my answer would be different”. I never talked to him again.
Well fast forward a few months and I’m dating an amazing guy. He was my friend for so long, and I should mention that this other guy didn’t like him for some reason.
my bf and I frequently go to the restaurant that he and I went to once. He said it was his favorite place. It’s right next to my school and is a very popular spot.
Well we just bumped into the guy and he looked so offended. He said I disrespected him and the things he loves by bringing my boyfriend to the place HE introduced me to.
I feel really guilty and I don’t know if I should keep going to the restaurant. He texted me later and said I was just rubbing it in that I’m dating someone else by going to a place I know he likes with another guy.
I don’t know what to say or do, and I feel like I did something wrong.