I was absolutely stunned when I found out that my boyfriend of two years was actually married and had a wife for five years.
Found out after his wife got my number and Whatsapped me
It started when I received a message on WhatsApp from a woman who identified herself as his wife.
She sent me a series of screenshots showing conversations between the two of them and told me that they had been together for five years.
I was in complete shock. How could someone who was supposed to love me do this to me? I had been with him for two years, and I had no idea he was married. I couldn’t believe that he had been lying to me the whole time.
I was so angry and hurt. I felt betrayed and lied to. I wanted to confront him and make him see what he had done to me, but I also knew that I needed to remain calm. After all, this woman was his wife. I had to put her feelings first, even if it meant I didn’t get the answers I wanted.
I decided to reach out to her and try to talk things out. We had a long conversation and I was able to get a better understanding of their relationship.
She told me that they had been together since they were in uni and had gotten married shortly after. She also revealed that he had been cheating on her with other women and that she had been trying to get a divorce for a while now.
The whole situation was heartbreaking. I felt so sorry for her and all the pain she must have been through. I also felt sorry for myself, for having been fooled into thinking he was single.
I eventually ended things with me and learnt the hard way that you can’t always trust the people you love.