I need some serious advice, I got into a relationship with a girl who used to be my best friend’s ex. But their relationship ended more than 11 years ago.
My best friend is a very petty person and does not have many friends.
For me, in a relationship this kind of thing happens when it happens, the feelings develop and things happen and it is not something that is deliberate. But my best friend will see it differently, like a betrayal.
How do I break the news to my friend?
The scenario seems to be, if I go along with this girl I will lose my friend. If I lose this girl I lose both the girl and my friend.
I have been single for several years and not one girl has touched or opened up my heart and given me feelings till now. I would not say that I am madly in love with this girl but my heart has slowly opened up to her after my divorce that ended years ago. The divorce really crushed me and I have been unable to love anyone or have feelings for anyone till now.
Some of my friends told me to do whatever that makes me happy while others told me to go with the flow as the relationship might not last as well.
What should I do?