I married my wife for her money
I have been with her for her money from the moment we started dating. I treated my relationship with her like a second job.
I tried to be perfect in every way until I ask her to marry me.
After contacting a lawyer I was planning to get a divorce within two to three years. But I fell in love with her and she truly changed me from the selfish a-hole I once was. She gave me a family.
Our 8th wedding anniversary is next month. and I still feel guilty to this day.
For the people asking. I do have a job. I never cheated on her or treated her badly and I know that I don’t deserve her.
- Don’t ever tell her. Consider the guilt you’re feeling your punishment. If you tell her you’d feel relieved but you’ll be punishing her instead, and that’s just selfish. The reasons you got with her are not the reasons you ARE with her right now. Keep being the best husband you can be
- Thanks for sharing. I am happy for her that it ended this way. And obviously never tell her if you want to stay with her. It’s the most selfish thing people do to off their own guilt by ‘coming clean’ and ruining the life of the other person. I can’t believe there are people here suggesting that. Must be teenagers. Definitely not married. Go to therapy.