When you break up with your rich gf to be with a pretty one and it ended up ruining your life.
My first gf was in nus. She comes from a rich family. I know exactly the type of guy she like so I became exactly that to get her. It was great when we’re dating. She would surprise me with dates of staycations, fancy restaurants, movie nights. I would offer to pay but she would decline as she knows I’m still giving part time tuition to supplement my allowance as I’m also studying.
Tbh I’m not that into her but I kept it going as I really enjoyed the company and the lifestyle. I come from a humble background but have always aspired to make it big when I graduate.
Then this new girl entered my life. She’s the hottest girl I’ve ever met irl. She also happen to be newly single and all the guys were swooning and wanting to get her attention. I was lucky enough to have common friends with her and got introduced.
Fate was on my side, my old gf had an argument with me and I used the chance to break up with her. I did my best to make it seem that it was coincidental. When I couldn’t wait any longer I openly pursued the new girl.
I admit I was aggressive in chasing her as I knew she had other suitors. Things didn’t work out as well as I thought once we are officially together.
We argued everyday. It was mostly because I suspect she was still talking to other guys. I can’t help myself and would get angry when she has other guys around her when in school. Why can’t she just hang out with the girls?! I hate her best guy friend who’s known her since she was in secondary school. Why must they still keep in contact? Aren’t I enough?
I bought a diamond ring for her to wear which she did but I still think it’s not enough. We still argue everyday. I’m so bloody angry with her. Why can’t she just not give me reasons to doubt her?!
I made so many arrangements with her. Set up bank account together with her. We leave personal belongings in each other’s place. I mostly want her to leave her things at my place because it’s easier for her to stay over at my place as her family are not nice.
I have lost count the number of times we argue, break up, I buy flowers to win her back. I admit I let my insecurity get the better of me sometimes. But it’s her fault. She’s too pretty and she did nothing to assure me that she won’t cheat on me.
When she started her internship I knew she would stray one day and I was right. I caught her walking with a male colleague out of the office building. When I confronted her she told him to quickly leave. If they were platonic, why won’t she introduce me?! She said I’m embarrassing her. I snatched her phone and left and she didn’t even chase after me. Isn’t this a sign of guilt?
She said its over so many times until I don’t believe her anymore. I always am able to coax her back to me. But not anymore after this. I suspect she’s seeing someone who works with her. That is the only explanation.
I destroyed everything of hers that she left at my place and she closed out the bank account that we shared and dared to tell me she was the only one putting money in so the money is all hers. What about the amount of money I spent on her?! That diamond ring isn’t cheap! She had the cheek to change her numbers and even got her family to hang up on me. I made sure she remember everything that happened is her fault. She ruined me. I will never forgive her!
Pretty girls are over rated. She doesn’t even have much money and yet acted like I’m the money greedy one. Wait till I earn 100k per annum, I’m sure she will regret leaving me!