Never felt this way before
I am a M 28 and my girlfriend is 25. We have been together for 3 years now.
Last week when we were at her place, I met her grandma for the first time. Her grandma is living at her parents’ house temporarily as her uncle’s house is undergoing reno.
When I met the grandma I felt a kind of overwhelming S tension I have never felt before. And before long, to ease the tension, I started pleasuring myself while fantasizing about her grandma. To my surprise I climaxed pretty quickly.
For some time, I thought of this as a fairly harmless exercise until recently when I started having performance problem with my girlfriend.
Everytime we try to get intimate I will be overwhelmed with a sense of guilt (not sure whether from me fantasizing about her grandma or keeping this secret from her) that I could not get hard enough.
I don’t believe I have a granny fetish because I have never felt this way before.
Anyone able to give any insight on how to overcome this? Out of fear of judgement I haven’t been able to discuss this with anyone. Not much literature online about this.
Here are what netizens think:
- One way I find helpful is to undress yourself in front of both your gf and her grandma. When it comes up, it’ll point to the person you desire the most. Really helped me make my decision when I had the same dilemma during lock down two years ago. Try it, hope it helps!
- What did I just read? If this is true, this is the worst place to ask for advice. Visit a counsellor or therapist if you find that its hindering your daily life. Don’t try to be stingy on this. A paid professional can help you better than internet trolls who will likely treat your post as a joke.
- The easy solution here is to leave your girlfriend and date her grandma. Problem solved, unless you want kids. But this world is insane and everything is so expensive, better don’t have kids and just lead a good life for yourself.