I (27M) started dating my co worker(24F) because I thought she was single
Long story short,
She did not break up with her current boyfriend cleanly and I found out about it after she repeatedly lied to me, we even slept together before.
She has tried to assure me that she was totally over him, she is just a non confrontational person so she doesn’t know to to end things properly.
Now she is going on a overseas trip planned long ago with him and is asking me to wait for her to settle her things.
I told her that going on the trip was a deal breaker, she decided to lie to me that she was going with her friend instead. End of the day she still decided to go on that trip supposedly to end things.
The main problem here is that I fell so deeply for her, I won’t know how to act when she’s back and seeing her daily in the office.