I read a post here about a 10/10 girl or something and the comments were mostly not useful or just mostly trolls.
I am in a similar situation to the OP where I want a girl who is (8-10)/10 but I am probably much lower. I also have friends (both gender) who are in similar situations.
If you are someone that believes that someone’s rating (not a good word but for discussion sake, pls let it through) should be static, then this post is not for you, move on pls.
The premise for this post is that you can improve your rating and possibly even become a 10/10 from a 0/10.
I think there are two main benefits of this thought –
Firstly, it is basically self-improvement, pretty sure it makes someone feel more confident, feel good and probably has results in a better life.
Secondly, you can get your 10/10 girl or your dream crush or whatever.
By the way, this 10/10 is not just physically attractiveness, it could mean other aspects such as personality or whatever.
I am a CS student so I think of things logically and step by step so there are here are questions:
Assuming I am starting out as a 0/10 person,
1) What are the main aspects I should work on to reach 10/10 (not limited physical attractiveness, can include others as well)?
2) How should I approach this problem?
3) What are resources that I can refer to, if any?
I hope this helps other people as well and is a positive thread.
There are quite a number of guys and girls in similar situations.
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