Suddenly got ED. Doctor says it’s all in my mind.
I never had any ED related issues in past. I was having good time with my gf from past 2.5 months. One day it just didn’t get up. We laughed it off but the same thing happened next day also.
I tried pleasuring myself later at home but I just couldn’t get it up. We decided to visit a Urologist. He examined me and said it’s alright and It’s all because of stress.
We tried to take one week break. Now when I try to check by imagining stuff or watching stuff online, it’s still not getting up. I’ll be meeting my girlfriend after 3 days. I have no idea how to get it working.
Here are few things which i would like to highlight –
I went for a 4 hr cycling tour which was extremely painful as the seats of the bicycle were in bad condition. This was one week before the problem began. But for 3 days post cycling tour, I had no problems in bed with getting it up.
Day before the problem, i spent around 6 hours in swimming pool.
I have had morning wood everyday since the problem began. Initially it was very weak but everyday it’s getting stronger like it used to. However, I’m unable to maintain the hardness when I try to self pleasure or sleep with my girlfriend.
Me and my girlfriend used to dry hump lot without any lubricant. Sometimes, it used to hurt in my frenulum area due to overstretching but i didn’t complain as my girlfriend enjoyed the grind.
However, doc checked the frenulum area and he said it’s fine.
I’ve been under extreme stress due to all this. I don’t think it’s just a psychological issue otherwise i would have gotten it up when I pleasure myself.
however, I still get hard when I talk to my girlfriend or i”m near her. It’s just that it is weak and I can’t maintain it.
I talked to my gf about it and she is very supportive. She is even willing to take a month hiatus from making out and making love. I don’t know what to do and whom to approach.
Any idea what’s the cause and will it get resolved on its own with time?