So I’m a bit tipsy writing this. Bear with me.
Boyfriend and I were semi rough in bed and unknown to me, when he enters me, my “lips” are pulling in his genital hair and when he exits, it tugs really hard because the grip on his hair is tight, it rips and plucks off the hair from it.
After a few days of fairly regular f-ing, he got a rash from my “lady lips” tugging his genital hair and now when we make love, it is painful for him and he can’t insert fully without pain.
It’s really embarrassing for me because he says he hasn’t had this with any of his other exes. I’m a bit self conscious about my vaggy because the minora lips are small and my majora lips are larger.
I read somewhere that men prefer “outties” vs “innies” because seeing the minora lips from the outside is more arousing. I take it his exes had that since this issue is exclusive to me and him.
I suggested shaving or waxing but he gets itchy and painful from the regrowth phase. I don’t know what else to do.
Anyone else have this issue?
- First of all your boyfriend needs medical care because he might be in danger of having an skin infection, not really an std but if he got a wound from those ripped hairs all wounds can get infected, so he might need antibiotic prescribed by a doctor.
For the hair problem why don’t he try just trimming with scissors or shaving but with a razor that does not trims right on the skin
- It does seem like a bit of manscaping on his part would solve this problem easily, so if he doesn’t like shaving, a close trim might help.
- You can’t really make a blanket statement that men prefer one style over the other… there are lots of men and lots of preferences.