I think my father is attracted to my girlfriend.
My girlfriend (21F) and I (25M) have been dating for long over a year now. We have a very healthy and happy relationship and I’ve never been happier in my life.
Recently I’ve taken her to meet my parents. My parents are fairly wealthy, while my girlfriend and I live away from them.
I wouldn’t say I’m wealthy, but I make good money. We visited my parents house around a week ago and my father wouldn’t stop staring at my girlfriend.
He asked her some questions like “Where do you work?”, “How tall are you?”, and things seemed mostly normal. He started complimenting her, but I didn’t think much of it since my girlfriend is very attractive.
He told her “You have great child-bearing hips” and that he’d want to see her pregnant with my child. My girlfriend looked visibly uncomfortable and my dad started saying even weirder things, so we just excused ourselves from the dinner table.
She told me she was tired and wanted to go home. I told my parents we were going to leave and my dad looked angry. I took my girlfriend and drove back to our apartment.
The next day my dad called and said he wanted to talk to me. It was the weekend and my girlfriend was working her shift so I drove back up to my parents’ house.
My dad sat me down outside and told me how hot my girlfriend was and that I was lucky to have her. He mentioned how he wanted me to get her pregnant and said “It’s like her body was made for it.”
I obviously got angry and told him he shouldn’t say things like that about her, and marriage wasn’t even on our roster right now, let alone starting a family.
He told me it was about time I had a child, and mentioned my older sister who had her son at 20. He said my girlfriend had the perfect figure and genetics to help carry on our family name, and that he’s proud of me as his only son. This is when I got angry and stormed off.
Should I confront my dad about his dated views?
Edit: While we were eating he also said that she had full lips and a rounded mouth. It pissed me off even more. Why does he think he could say that about a woman half his age, especially to his sons girlfriend?