What should I do when my friend owes me money and still blames me?
I was damn stupid to lend my friend almost 6 digit worth of money by bank loan even private loan, only for everything to be lost in a scam.
He told me cause of business failed all the money to settle his business debts. So I tried being understanding which he promise would return the money to me.
Really he don’t even bother pay me been 3years, I see his family going on trips to Korea etc. Which he using my credit card pay for it .
I posted he and his family recently on social media they’re fraudsters. He found out angry text threaten me said I’m a b-h , his family going to report police. He even text me give a chance to remove post. WTF… did he forget he the one owe me money didnt pay a single cents.
A lot of people say this money is confirm lost, he and his wife fraudsters. It’s not business failed actually their overspend. Because I don’t make noise, they keep taking advantage right?
The worse when i showed him all the transaction money he owed me. He say need check first correct anot. WTF… he said I’m one who screwed up friendship because of money
Netizens’ comments
- Hes playing u out to escape the payments he owes u. He paiseh because the whole people in his life will see this and be wary of his antiques. Tell him to pay u pay in smaller amounts, u keep track of the amount n balance.
But frankly la, by the way he act, can see the money cant be returned. Take it as a painful lesson n stop lending ppl ur money permenantly. And cut ur friendship with him n whoever that u know who is with his side for good. - This is painful to hear. I would ask what’s wrong with you instead of what’s wrong with him. This person treat you like atm you still call him a friend. What’s so special about this person and friendship that you will allow yourself to be used until no limit?
And yes all the money is confirm gone and will not be returned. You did not make him accountable for his actions and left it entirely up to him to do ‘what is right’.
In the first place, most people who know how to be a friend, would not try to borrow money or use other people’s money or credit card. You’ve met a scammer. - Why still need to think ? Make police report first ! Let the police investigate!
You are fooled and cheated by him, that’s all. And why you want to let a married man use your card ? This is something I can never understand. Is there something beyond a pure friendship? Why are you so scared about him making police report against you ?
I can’t even imagine you allowed him to go for tour and charge to your card. Only sugar mommies does that …